Listening is helping

The first step at the beginning of interpersonal relationship is to express one's mood first. Put what you want to say in your heart, think hard and feel unhappy. It is better to try to speak it out easily, which is good for both body and spirit.
Some people will be shy and confused because others show their kindness to him, but no one will hate him very much. Moreover, the ability of communication is not just to communicate with others. Being a good listener is also very important. At this time, the most important thing is not to enter the role too much. In the relaxed atmosphere of body and mind, what the other side said is almost all self-boasting, complaining or other people's bad words. The Knack at this time is, act as listening, but the left ear goes in and the right ear goes out, it is good not to take it to heart.
When listening to the other party's words, don't say negative words like "this is too much" and "How could it be like this" with indignation. It is better to say "so it is" to affirm the other party's words, the other side doesn't want to listen to the judgement, but just wants someone to listen.
When others complain and complain, as long as you listen beside, you will be very helpful.