Life, because your achievements are not enough, others will look down upon you. Because your achievements are not high enough, others will ignore you, because your morality is not high, others will bully you. Because your emotion is not perfect enough, others will laugh at you. No one is perfect in life. Life is just a process towards perfection. External comments are in direct proportion to your achievements.
Your career will affect others' judgement. If you are a journalist and a star, others will know you soon and most people will know you. If you are a writer, you have no achievements after working for one or two years, and even you are not known for your whole life, then you need your persistence. This is related to the exposure rate as well as the mainstream of the society. So don't be discouraged. Others' contempt for you is exactly the driving force to push you forward. If others have a bad impression on you, you might as well find your own shortcomings from your work.
Secondly, your work will affect others' attitudes towards you. So use your work to prove your own strength and change others' opinions.
Everyone will encounter various difficulties at the beginning of success. But failure is the mother of success. Only through the baptism of failure can one have rich success. Cherish everyone's attitude. No matter how ordinary people are, they also have their own opinions, which will determine your quality. Compared with the vast world, we are so small. If others look down upon you, it may be economic problems, moral problems, and personality problems. Every young man will be despised. Some are extroverted while others are extroverted. Compared with introverted people, extroverted people are more likely to be recognized and welcomed. Of course, we are young and have many shortcomings. Life is a process of learning from others' strong points to make up for their weak points. Cherish others' contempt, because others' contempt makes you tomorrow and inspires you today.
Others may despise you emotionally, but we can also despise others. The independence of emotion is just the role of others. Having emotional independence is more important than economic independence and moral independence. In terms of emotion, including love, family affection and friendship, they all need to be protected by sunshine and baptized by wind and rain. Emotionally, there are all kinds of emotions. Be a woman, be a strong woman, be a man and be an optimistic man. Who is not from boys and girls to men and women.
Don't be looked down upon by others, get happiness from work, perfect yourself morally, and clean yourself up emotionally. No one is perfect, and the most perfect lifestyle is not to be looked down.