A descendant of the third generation of a bee-keeping family, when he first started to raise bees, he heard that mixing wild bees with domestic bees could increase the amount of honey production, so he caught a large number of wild bees and tried to mix them with domestic bees.
As a result, wild bees and domestic bees killed each other. The war continued, and more than half of a box of bees were killed and injured.
He was at a loss, so he consulted his grandfather who had kept bees all his life. Grandpa found a teacup, scooped up a small spoon of honey, poured in a little white wine, and then added water to mix up. After that, Grandpa took a sip, put it in his mouth, and sprayed it out to a Beebox. Then he took another sip and sprayed it to the box where wild bees were stored. Then Grandpa said, "All right, put them together ." As a result, the wild bee and the domestic bee turned the enemy into friends and lived in harmony.
It turns out that wild bees and domestic bees have different odors and repel each other. Once the odors are different, they will be like enemies. However, a mouthful of wine can make them have the same taste, turning dry into jade.
The best way to resolve contradictions is to make both parties find the integrating point.