How to face life and work

When I started to write this article, it had been more than three months since I came to deer. In these three months, what makes me feel more deeply is the "difference" of DEAR people, which is actually the three ordinary words: "Human, emotion, taste!" It was these three ordinary words that made me deeply fall in love with DEAR and the people here at the same time.
In today's busy society, people gradually forget these three words, but in DEAR, they still keep the simple, strong and deep feeling of DEAR, which is the long-lost ~~~ The feeling of DEAR made me deeply feel the responsibility and pressure on my shoulder.
The ruthless years gradually took away my childhood and many wonderful memories. As time goes by, different roles in life begin to change and overlap. When the night is still, I also thought about how to face life and work? In DEAR, a big family full of people, emotions and tastes, as a member of the big family, I have the responsibility and obligation to open my heart to share some of my thoughts and feelings with everyone.
Many people face life and work with the attitude of playing games. I think playing games is the nature of children. When we step from playing children to getting married and working, games can only be regarded as negative attitudes towards life. Without ambitious goals and life plans, life is doomed to be meaningless. Blindly indulging in games can only be an extension of meaningless life, which is of no benefit to reality. Make your own life plan, work hard and irrigate the flower of life with hard sweat, then the flower will be more brilliant. Otherwise, the flower of life is like the moon in the mirror, which is illusory. When you become a teenager, what do you take to show off to your descendants? At that time, life is impossible to come back again.
I treat my work the same way. Work is not only the cornerstone of my survival, but also the stage to realize my dream. However, many people pursue a leisure life or even a life of getting nothing for work, which is by no means the correct working attitude. In my opinion, since I chose DEAR, I should be proud of being a member of DEAR, realize my importance, think about my duty and role all the time, and strive to improve my current work passion, strive to be a talent who is more useful to DEAR, so as to stimulate their own potential and serve DEAR better. If we blindly pursue enjoyment and ease, we will achieve nothing.
My parents have told me since I was a child: when I was born to be a human being, I should thank the public for their kindness, the parents for their kindness, the teachers for their kindness, and the country for their kindness. There is no public benefit or parents' upbringing, without the teacher's instruction and the country's love, how can we survive between heaven and earth? Therefore, gratitude is not only a virtue, but also a basic condition for a person to be a person!
Gratitude has become a common social morality. However, people are often grateful for the little help of a stranger, but they ignore all kinds of kindness and job opportunities from the bosses and superiors who get along with each other day and night. This kind of mentality always leads them to despise their work and take the help of the company and colleagues for granted. They often complain and complain, let alone abide by their duties.
Every job or every working environment cannot be perfect, but there are many valuable experiences and lessons in every job, such as the frustration of failure, the joy of self-growth, the happy working partners, the superior leaders who are worthy of gratitude and teach you how to work, etc, these are the feelings and wealth that a successful worker must experience. If you can work with gratitude every day and keep in mind the principle of "having a job, you must know how to be grateful, I think how deep your present gratitude is, how much the stage and reward of your future development will be.
A grateful attitude can change a person's life. When we clearly realize that we don't have any right to ask others, we will have strong gratitude for the care around us or any job opportunity. Because in order to repay this beautiful world, we will try our best to do the work at hand well and get along with people around us happily. Then, we will not only be in a happy mood, but also get more help and work better.
A father warned his son who just stepped into the society, "If you meet a good boss, you should work for him faithfully; if you have a good salary for your first job, then you are lucky, you should work hard with gratitude and happiness; if the salary is not ideal, you should know how to temper your skills at work. This father is wise. All the young people should keep these words in mind, always stick to this principle to do things, even if they were under others at first, don't care. No matter what you do at work, you should return your mentality to zero. Each task is regarded as a new beginning, a new experience and a door to success.
Once you are mentally prepared and have a healthy mentality, no matter what you do, you can be willing to do it with all your strength. When the opportunity comes, you can grasp it in time. On the contrary, even if you have an unhealthy mentality, it will slip away even if you have opportunities to care for you every day. Do not regard work as chicken ribs, food is boring, and it is a pity to give up. As a result, you are not willing to do it, and it is not beneficial to both public and private.
Gratitude is a kind of good mentality as well as a kind of dedication. When you work with a grateful mood, you will work more happily and excellently.
The true gratitude should be sincere, gratitude from the bottom of heart, rather than the hypocrisy to cater to others for a certain purpose. Different from strolling, gratitude is a natural expression of emotion, which is not for return. You will become more modest, respectable and noble with a grateful heart from time to time. Every day, I spend several minutes to be grateful for having the job in front of me, for entering such a company, and for being lucky to follow such a generous boss.
Without gratitude, people will immediately fall into a terrible situation, being picky or even dissatisfied with many objective phenomena. If your mind is occupied by the phenomena that make you dissatisfied, you will lose your peaceful mind and let your mind focus on the gloomy things such as wretched, dirty and even despicable, you will also become dark. In addition, psychologically, you will find that dark things are more and more around you, making it hard for you to get rid of them. On the contrary, if you focus all your attention on the bright things, you will become a positive person, a man who makes great achievements.
I advise those young people who are full of complaints that we should thank those who hurt us at any time, because they have tempered our minds. Thanks to those who stumbled us, because they strengthened our belief. Thanks to those who deceive us, because they have enhanced our wisdom. Thanks to those who despise us, because they have awakened our self-esteem. Thanks to those who forget us, because they have taught us to be independent. Move your eyes from others to the work in your hands, and feel grateful for the work. Spend more time thinking about what you still need to improve and improve, see if your work has been done perfectly. If you can work with a grateful heart rather than a complaining attitude every day, I believe that the mood at work is naturally happy and positive, and the results of work will be quite different.
In DEAR, as long as you have the ability, DEAR will give you space to display. If you have a dream, DEAR will provide you with a stage to realize your dream, and you will get the greatest success and respect in DEAR.
Today, I can serve DEAR. To be a proud DEAR, I should cherish the existing working atmosphere. But it is far from enough for me to work hard. I also need to plan my long-term life goals well and have the sense of hardship. I told myself secretly in my heart, if you want to be a qualified DEAR, you must eat two more things: Suffering hardships and suffering losses. Cultivate two qualities: introspection and learning. Strive for two extremes: give full play to the potential and make the work and responsibility to the extreme. Only in this way can you speak out confidently: "I am a qualified DEAR.
My relatives: "Happiness is always accompanied by generous people, wealth is always accompanied by honest people, wisdom is always accompanied by noble people, success is always accompanied by diligent people, health is always accompanied by comfortable people, let's go to work with a leisurely, calm and joyful grateful mood! Let's get to know, know and cherish DEAR! Common development! Meanwhile, I wish our DEAR a better tomorrow!