In the tough journey of life, we should stick to a belief: We can lose to others, but we can never lose to ourselves. Most of the time, facing the harsh environment and natural and man-made disasters, it is we who deny ourselves psychologically, and we ourselves who choose to give up and fail.
At a banquet, Dr. Balken, a famous American social psychologist, proposed that everyone should write an "autobiography" in the shortest words ", the wording is so short that it can even be used as the epitaph carved on the tombstone after death. So everyone was thinking hard, stretching out the paper and writing.
A sentimental youth gave Balken a piece of "Autobiography" with only three punctuation marks: a dash "-----", and an exclamation mark "!" And a full stop ".". Balken asked him what he meant, and the young man said with a bitter smile: "A burst of rushing, a sad sigh, in the end had to be finished ." After a little thought, Balken drew three punctuation marks strongly under this "autobiography": a sudden sign ",". An ellipsis "......" And a question mark "?".
Then, the doctor said to this young man who gave up himself in his special encouraging tone: "Youth is a small stop in life; the road is long and the hope is boundless; how can we hear that 'The Prodigal son will never change the gold when he returns to the Up '?"
In life, what defeats you is not the external environment, but yourself.
A strong man who doesn't lose to himself is a person who doesn't forget his life rights and can also choose a positive attitude in trouble;
He is a person who can treat failure correctly and never give up; he is a person who is arrogant but not arrogant, and values his dignity of being a human being more than his life;
He is a person who can respect, tolerate, be kind to friends, know how to treat others and how to treat others;
He is a person who can control time, use time with high quality and race with time:
He is a man who has a correct understanding of wealth. A gentleman loves wealth and has a good way to get it;
He is a person who understands the true meaning of love and has strong emotional support.
In fact, the biggest enemy of life is yourself. If you insist on winning, and don't lose to yourself, Destiny will bow to you one day.
